I went on my "date" tonight. Which lasted all of 2, maybe 3, minutes. Immediately after we met, he informed me that I was "bigger" than I looked in my photos (which makes no sense bc one of them was from last week!) and that unless I was interested in just hooking up, he wasn't interested, so, what did I think? I am pretty sure he thought he was throwing me a bone by so generously offering to still sleep w/ me despite how obviously hideous I was and that he was expecting me to jump @ the chance to be able to sleep with him. Like my reaction was going to be, "Well gee, you just insulted me but sure, let's go do it." Instead my reaction was, "Ok I am going to head home." So I did.
And here I was being concerned that the worst thing that could happen would be that I would be awkward... Looks like I vastly underestimated just how bad it could be.
My jaw was on the floor reading that! At least you didn't have to suffer listening to him for hours and you got your night back.....
ReplyDeleteBTW, don't give a thought worrying if they will like you....YOU GET TO DECIDE! YOU choose if they are worthy of your company and your time. :)
True! Thank you! :)
DeleteWhat the crap...? I'm really sorry that it went that badly. Guys like that make me want to punch random guys I meet, on the assumption that, based on my female friends' experiences, odds are good any random guy I run into is going to deserve being punched.
ReplyDeleteI think that is a solid approach!
DeleteWow, I came on here to see how your date went. And wow. Here's my advice that isn't really my advice, but thought it was brilliant!
ReplyDeleteOn the show Ready for Love:
"So every woman is saying, 'Why is it that every guy I don't like chases me, and the guys I like never want me.' Here's why: It's because around the guys you don't want, you own your standards, whereas with the guy you like, you start dropping your standards because you think, 'well as long as I get close to him, then it will start working.' ...What makes a woman attractive IS HER STANDARDS." -Matthew Hussey (matchmaker on NBC's "Ready for Love")
Did you get what I wrote?
ReplyDeleteI did. And I really like it. Thank you! :) (I still have comment moderation on because I keep getting spam comments all the time...)
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